Saturday, March 5, 2011
Depressed and no where to turn :(?
I have GREAT advice for you. Be patient. Dont just jump into having a child because you are bored. I'm 22 also and I'm in the Army. I'm from Missouri but got stationed in Alaska. I got married to my high school sweet heart and she ended up coming up there to. She was in the same exact situation you are in. She knew no one here, had no friends, and all her friends in missouri were fake to her. Even if they werent she was to far to see them. She pretty soon wanted a kid and said all the same EXACT things you are saying now. She would say Im so ready, Im so motherly, blah blah blah. She convinced me and we had a baby girl. Dont get me wrong I love her to death and would do anything for her. I dont regret her one bit, BUT you soon realize how much work a baby is. Trust me you dont really know untill you do, a lot of people just think they do. They are expensive as hell to and if you guys arent even able to afford your own place yet I would seriously reconsider you decision. Also my wife and I miss out on a lot of the fun things normal 22 year old couples could do becuase we have kids. But overall its your decision, best of luck to you :)
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