Am i stupid or afraid?

well how to say this, there this xpecific chick dat im really attach to. we had a history together, but we aint together as in a couple, wat sux is dat we are kids no more we both have jobs, not an awsome well pay job just a job. well she works on morning n i afternoons soo our communication went down alot but sumhow da spark still there. she says i love u n she needs me but we cant b together cause of her baby daddy. long story short he threatends her by taking her bsby if she goes wit me, anywayz there is this other chick i set ma eyez to, she is a mom too but difference is dat her baby daddy is a runaway, im interested in this chick but i dunt wanna lose wat i have wit the other one. am i afraid of starting over? or the fact she says i love u keeps me from seing ppl? im sooo confuse